Part of what frustrated me so much is I have an autoimmune illness that set in during my late teens. After spending nearly allllll my 20s off and on sick and in and out of the hospital, I worked my ass off to figure out what would make me feel better so I could reclaim his life. I think I resented that he just...gave up.
We each have our own journey, and i no longer have to listen to him complain about his health!