Ha. Just wait... that's where I was when I met my partner... It's always when you're not looking and when you're just enjoying your life. Gratitude is the very first step!

I said I was healing from the divorce and over marriage (it wasn't ever something I dreamed of as a kid anyway), and that I was going to enjoy being single and independent again...

and then BOOM! I met my partner and though he is not at all what I would have thought I wanted, he's exactly what I needed.